Tuesday, December 24, 2019

Discipleship, Advent and the DNA of love

As we have been saying, we disciples are intended to be yeast that leavens the whole dough .... making disciples to the ends of the earth. And the Lord gives the World the right to judge that we are His disciples by our love. Explicitly “By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:35). In other words part of the DNA of a “disciple indeed” (John 8:31) is love. There are three different Greek words in Scripture that are translated “love” in English. A little overly simplistically they are eros, or erotic and romantic love, phileo or friendship love, and finally agapao. This last word is found only in the Bible and the writing of the Church. It is the unconditional love of God, the love that lead Christ to undergo suffering and death in order to redeem sinful mankind (John 3:16). And it is with this love that the World will know we are His disciples, and with which we are commanded to love one another (John 13:35; 15:12).

Scripture tells us that “God is love (agapao)” (1 John 4:16). What this is saying, is that the very essence of God is extravagant unconditional love. It is part of His DNA, and it is to be part of ours as disciples (John 13:35 again). In 1 John 4:19 we read “We love (agapao) because He first loved (agapao) us.” Some translations have “We love Him ...,” but “Him” is not in the best readings. Certainly we love Him too, but taken together these verses are saying that the source of this extravagant love is God, and our ability to love in this way comes only as we respond to the overwhelming extravagance of His agape love. But clearly not all Christians exhibit this, and those that do, may not be consistent in displaying it. And that is why He commands us to “abide in My (agapao) love” (John 15:9).

But what does it mean to abide in His love? The very next verse (v 10) tells us part of it. “If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love.” God's agape love is unconditional, but it is not codependent, it is not an enabling love. God's agape love is tough love when it needs to be, allowing us to suffer the consequences of our poor choices (Galatians 6:7). This love is righteously jealous, and is as strong as death (Song 8:6 LXX). For God's agape love to grow in us, it has to be returned, and this is why He commands us to love (agape) Him with all we are and have (Luke 10:27). But love also grows as we spend time (abide) with each other and Him. Since He is love and the source of love, we will know that love more and more as we choose to be still before Him in the secret place, and know that He is God (Psalm 46:10; 91:1).

Father, help us in this busy season to take the time to meditate on the reason for the season. Help us to love one another as You have loved us, and help us to stay vitally connected to You in the midst of all the business and the tinsel and the trimmings and the turkey. Please help those Lord for whom this season is so very very difficult. Draw them and us into Your hope and peace and joy and love in Jesus Name Amen

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